Posts Tagged ‘goals’
Last week I didn’t quite fulfill my initial goal I’d set for myself. To recap, this is what I set for myself:
So, at least for this week (the nice thing about goals is that they can be adjusted), I have ONE goal:
Make a list of ten things I dream of doing and prioritize them by how much I want them, how long they will take to achieve and what steps I will need to follow to meet each one. And one caveat here… no “pay bills” goals here.
We’ll see where that gets me (What Am I Doing? 4/3/17)
Last week, I bemoaned the fact that Shiny was more than just an adjective but also a state of mind as I tried to describe the cause of my failure. I can’t say I am better off now. The ‘new and shiny’ is still demanding more of me than I suspected. I knew it would be hard to narrow down the list, but… yeesh.
Still, I think I have come up with something that works as a decent starting point. Ten things I dream of doing and how I intend to get there… and after that, new goal: to take dream from the list and start working on achieving it.
- I want to do something that will help others without causing hassles for the people I love. This may seem like an odd thing for a dream. It’s clearly not a S.M.A.R.T. goal. It’s vague, has no defined times, and… attainable and specific ran right off the cliff here. But this is who I am. I like to help, to do things that make peoples’ lives easier… and I get into all sorts of fluff because of it. Starting now, I want to figure out better ways to help without also becoming a problem. Sometimes it will mean saying “No” more. I bet sometimes I will have to say “Yes” more too. This is not something that can be given a one-size-fits-all-(or even most) solution, but… I can dream, can’t I?
The storyworld that exists in my head needs to be realized in more than one ‘permanent’ format. I don’t want to just work on the writing—I need to get through that part, but I also want to develop the skills to also give it form in other expressions, preferably drawing or painting since I have at least half a chance of achieving it there. I would like to someday make an animation of some of the stories, but that’s not as high a priority as more basic art. To that goal, I need to dedicate more time to drawing and trying out how to use other artistic media. I may start joining some of the Boodle’s art classes, as they’ve been wonderful for helping him learn how to use the different tools to achieve his artistic visions.
- I want to travel because, while the internet has made the world much more accessible, there is a limit to the depth of experience one can garner from 360°images, webinars, and descriptive text passages. This is a dream in some ways… my husband is very much a home-body. It is also a goal that I can meet in limited forms. Next week I will be on an airplane, heading across The Pond with the Boodle to spend a few weeks exploring England and meeting some fellow writers.
- I dream about living in one of those homes that is part retreat, part library, part museum and antique shop. Sometimes this dream wobbles a bit and I actually am living in an antique shop, one that specializes in old books. Sometimes the dream involves running a Bed & Breakfast that would have some of these elements. Clearly I need to refine this a lot more…
- Sharing things that I find beautiful with others brings me exponential happiness… I need, in a visceral way, to do this. Since art and beauty are subjective, this isn’t always as easy as I would like, but generally, I have good luck with this. I just want to keep doing it…. and maybe increase my ‘out-reach’.
- I know I am not taking the best care of my body that I can at the moment (as much as it likes to remind me of that fact, I am not giving up my green tea lattes from Starbuck’s though). So I have other dreams/goals involving fitness and health… one of them is to run again and do another 5K race, running the thing this time. Why? Because I had a dear friend, almost a brother, who loved to run in 5 & 10K races, and he died before we could run together.
- I’m putting this a bit further down the list because… really it’s not up to me, so to speak—it is his life, and he will make these decisions on his own—, but I really want to be able to help my son discover what gives him joy and a sense of fulfillment.
- In little things as well as big things, I want to keep a sense of wonder.
- I dream of worlds where contact between two people meeting is not abrasive, but soothing. I want people to be comforted by my presence, and to be comfortable in theirs… I’d like to find my ‘tribe’.
- If we’re talking dreams… I dream about helping grow our local homeschooling community center into a more self-sustaining resource that involves the community at large in some ways. I know what I would do if I suddenly had a lot of money… or the skills to help operate such a place.
There it is… I suspect this list isn’t The List. It just is The List For Now. Seems to me, this is a process that I would benefit from participating in regularly. So… to Round 2 for this goal, and onto the goals for the rest of this round, starting with the new goal of ‘the week’.
A Sense of Wonder
Why? Because it’s the goal I am in the best position to work on now and it opens so many of the other goals.
I just realized, in the flutter of finally feeling “ready” to jump back into blogging and posting, that I hadn’t done a few things to prepare myself.
First, I didn’t make my reasons for blogging clear. So, first things first: I am blogging to reconnect with my fellow writers and those wonderful people in the ROW80 community.
Second, as a member of the ROW80 participating in this ROWnd, I should have started my posts with a goals statement. Saying “I’m writing!“, while good for me, doesn’t help my fellow ROWers do what they do best–be supportive. So, here, as we’re partway through ROWnd 1 already, here’s my goals for the next 56 days:
- Write my five sentences daily.
- At least three days a week, write a page, front-to-back
- Make weekly progress in travel plans for UK trip this Spring
- Post here once weekly with progress
- Maintain and update the ROW80 blog/site and linkies once a week
So… How’ve I done so far this week?
- I missed my five sentences yesterday, otherwise–on track
- Two days already
- Reserved flights, now plotting in country itinerary
- Posting now
- Done! And even fixed some of the ROW80 widgets
Pretty good for just jumping back into the fray. See you next week! 😀
It’s official. I am the world’s most inconsistent blogger.
(It’s also official… I do NOT like WordPress’s idea of a “newer, easier to use” [I forget the exact words they used] editor. Give me the clunky thing in my Dashboard/Admin area. Love that so much!)
Anyway… I’m back.
Another Round of Words in 80 Days began today, and since I volunteered to sponsor (I haven’t ROWed in a long time, and I miss the gentle nudges to write regularly), I need to blog. Why didn’t I choose my beloved writing blog Many Worlds From Many Minds? I don’t know: maintenance reasons, emotional reasons… Just reasons.
In the spirit of a ROW, it’s time to set some goals to keep tabs on throughout the next eighty days. I’m going low-key right now with the option (one I’m sure I will exercise because I always do) of adding goals later in the ROWnd.
In fact, my first (and main) goal is going to be: Assess progress weekly and add more projects as needed.
Notice I didn’t say “adjust” or “tweak” or any of those other (sometimes weaselly) words that allow me to drop a challenging project just because something newer and shinier has come into view? Well, I’m ALL about the shiny, trust me, but I’ve come to realize how self-defeating that behavior can be.
I just spent whole weekend cleaning out (actually I still have a few more hours left on the project yet) my OneNote files, notes that have piled up since 2003, notes that had not been synced correctly when I upgraded in 2010… notes that came with seven (yes, seven!) “conflicted versions” because a random change or edit got saved on one machine and not another.
My next project is to make sure all my story files are saved, backed up and synced correctly, and that also will include digging into some scary archives. Time to pull out DOSBox and Wordperfect 5.1 to make sure I have all the comments and notes.
And in the interim… I have the goals of:
- working through three chapters weekly of James Scott Bell’s Plot& Structure (including exercises)
- catching up in my local critique group (including submitting something this week)
- typing two pages a day of old notebooks in
And THAT is enough for anyone right now.
It’s been a process of rediscovering old interests, passions and… bad habits. But thing can change. In fact, they always do.